Play the Hand You're Dealt
Sometimes I'm shocked by how differently two people can experience the same phenomenon. A symptom that one patient would just shrug off as "not a big deal," another might complain is the worst tragedy that's ever befallen them. One huge factor in this is the patient's outlook, their attitude toward life. If you maintain a victim's mentality ("Woe is me, disadvantage X put me starting behind the line, obstacle Y blocks my path, and hurdle Z is too high to jump..."), then a symptom can seem immense. Pain looms like an enemy. It portends failure, signals doom. A related phenomenon called pain catastrophization has recently been described and elaborated on . Its significance in Hand surgery is being discussed by prominent hand surgeons including Dr. David Ring, Dr. Ryan Calfee, and others. I'm sure there's an overlap with the catastrophization of pain and those who posses a "victimhood mentality", but I haven't seen it describ...